2018: The Year of Three Words

I’m a little late on the whole “New Year’s Resolutions” trend. Better late than never, right?

A few years ago, instead of the usual list of goals, I chose three words to theme my year: First, Risk, and Joy.

Shortly after that, I (unintentionally) stopped blogging for a while and I didn’t track my progress on how that shift worked for me. I wish I had stuck with it; it kept me accountable. Generally speaking, though, I liked that way of kickstarting a new year.

This time, I sat down towards the end of December and began thinking of all that was to come in 2018. So many milestones, so many goals, so many items on the to-do list! Instead of jotting them all down, I noticed a couple of themes. I realized 2018 would not be the year of checking things off…

2018 would be the year of three words.

So I reviewed my list of goals and chose my 3 words: Change, Do, and Joy.



Change of last name. Change of mindset. Change of scenery. Change of style.

It kind of, sort of scares me that “Change” is inevitably one of my 2018 words. Change makes me nervous because routine is interrupted and my Type-A senses have difficulty adjusting to a new normal.


BUT it is also a good thing.

Change means growth and learning new things. It means pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Adventuring into the unknown can be exciting and full of possibility and joy. For example, I’m getting married this year (!!) so that alone comes with a lot of changes like place of residence, last name, relationship status, routine, schedule, responsibilities, and it also brings a lot of love and laughter and memory-making, to name a few.

I am excited that “Change” is one of my 2018 themes, even though it does make me a bit anxious. A few other changes that I hope to conquer this year: drinking more water then coffee, updating my blog, modifying a few habits, and waking up earlier.



2018 is the year that I do. Literally, I will say the words “I do” this year!

“Do” is action. It’s a step towards completing something. It’s a verb.


Honestly, something about the word has always inspired me. It’s not just an idea or thought; it’s a word that takes that and turns it into something. I’ve never been much of a daydreamer and I hate procrastinating. I’ve always been a girl who wants to spring into action ASAP and do something.

This year is no different; I want to do many things like read at least 25 books, complete my social marketing certification, buy a house, and get married. I want to be more intentional with my friends and write more letters…just to name a few.

“Do” encompasses so many things; it’ll be an adventure to see how God uses this word in my life this year.



“Joy” was one of my words for 2015, and I loved it so much, I’m choosing it again. This is what I said in 2015 about why I picked “Joy.” I think it sums it up pretty well:

Different than “happiness,” I choose “joy.” Happiness is temporary and circumstantial. Joy is a mindset. Through the little things, I yearn to discover the joy. Choose joy and keeping choosing it — that’s what I want to do. Instead of “I have to …”, replace it with “I get to…”   A mindset makes all the difference. Through every situation, good or bad, I aim to focus on the joy of it all.



So there ya go! My three words for 2018. What are your New Year’s Resolutions or Word(s) of the Year? Comment below; I’d love to see them as we encourage each other to live the greatest year yet.


On My Radar: 2018 Edition

Happy 2018!

I can’t believe it’s the start of a new year. In some ways 2017 flew by, but in others it dragged on. I’ve been eagerly awaiting 2018 for a while now, and it is finally HERE. Cue all the praise hands and happy dances.

So many exciting things are bound to happen this year, I can hardly wait.

Although I am still planning and finalizing my “resolutions,” I will share those with you soon. In the meantime, I wanted to share what’s on my radar lately because I’m really excited about them.

On My Radar…

{ONE} “The Magnolia Story” by Chip and Joanna Gaines


This book! I received it for Christmas because I’m a huge fan of Fixer Upper. I was always intrigued by the husband & wife duo who flip and design houses, raise four kids, live in Texas, and keep God at the center. However, while reading The Magnolia Story, I became an even bigger fan of the Gaines’.  It’s an easy read, too, so it hasn’t taken me long at all to be almost finished it. I’ll probably finish it tonight and I started reading it a few days ago.


{TWO} La La Land Piano Sheet Music

This piano sheet music book is another thing I received for Christmas and I *love* it. I’m always on the search for new songs to learn on the piano to challenge myself and keep my skills sharp. Since I teach piano and no longer take lessons myself, playing for fun usually does not happen on a regular basis. La La Land quickly became one of my favorite movies in early 2017, and the soundtrack is downright ah-maze-ing, so I am excited for the challenge.

{THREE} Fur Vests

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This trendy piece of clothing has stumped me. I love how it looks and received one as a gift this year. I’ve pinned a few outfits on Pinterest that includes this statement piece, but I have yet to test it out. It’s so warm and stylish, I’m excited to wear it soon.

{FOUR} Bloom Daily Planners’ Daily Calendar

Screen Shot 2018-01-02 at 4.10.56 PMI discovered Bloom Daily Planners a few years ago while researching the best academic planners to use during my senior year (*cough* my Type A is showing *cough*). Bloom is a Delaware-based company and their founders attended the University of Delaware, so obviously when I found this out, I was hooked and purchased my first of many products from Bloom. This year, I received the Bloom Daily Planners’ Daily Calendar and it sits proudly on my desk at work. It’s not only adorable and colorful, but every day features a quote or a challenge – two of my favorite things!


Those are a few things on my radar. What’s on yours?

Top Christmas Songs To Check Out Right Now

With the holiday season in full swing and only 3 (!!!) more days until Christmas, I’ve been finding myself listening to a variety of songs as I check things off my todo list.

Whether it’s baking goodies for my family and friends or wrapping gifts, I love having my favorite holiday tunes playing in the background.

To help you tackle your todo list, I’ve compiled them into a playlist so you can enjoy them, too!

Take a listen to my Spotify playlist below.

Merry Christmas!


P.S. Did I miss your favorite holiday tune? Comment below and I’ll add it for your listening pleasure.

5 Words: The Secret to Not Procrastinating


In my blog post, “The time is now,” I mention I was reading through drafts of my unpublished blog posts that at the time did not go live because I was not sure if I wanted to post them. In “The time is now” I hint that maybe I’ll finally publish some of those old drafts.

The below post is one of them.



The Secret to Not Procrastinating in 5 Words:






Turn. Off. The. Cell. Phone.

The time is now.

Well, it’s been a minute.

Actually, it’s been many minutes because I took an unplanned blogging hiatus as life continued around me.

I do not regret it…not one bit.

You see, I hadn’t realized this, but I was wearing myself thin. My brain was constantly in “work hard” mode and I mentally succumbed to this thought process that I had no time to “play hard.”

What exactly is “play hard?” You hear all the time this motto many proudly state as their own: Work hard, play hard. However, for me, as a Type-A perfectionist with a tendency to over achieve at whatever I do, “playing hard” does not always come easily, or naturally, to me.

I get stuck in the “work hard” cycle and rarely allow myself to “play hard.”

This does not necessarily mean I am a workaholic. I love my job and I love what I do every day. Coming to the office is not the issue.

The issue is the thought that I do not deserve to step away from whatever is considered “work” to instead, once in a while, focus my attention on spending time on myself.

Unfortunately for over a year that meant blogging was pushed to the back burner, as well as, a few of my other hobbies. I always said, “It’s not the time,” or “I don’t have time today,” or “There’s something else I should be doing.”

I made excuses for all the reasons why I shouldn’t or couldn’t.

Well, that’s changing. The time is now.


The other day, I needed a break from whatever I was doing (I don’t remember what). I decided to log onto my website for the first time in over a year. I decided to click “Drafts” and read all of the blog posts I was always scared to push live.

That’s when it hit me.

I missed blogging.

I missed getting my thoughts on paper because I wanted to, not because I was expected to.

I missed making time in the day to write, about anything, to no one in particular. To the digital space in the hopes that maybe someone out there would read it, but maybe not.

That’s when I realized that it was time.

The time is now.

To start again. Maybe not as frequently as before, but maybe. Who knows.

I am fighting against my instincts right now to not create a content calendar. You laugh, but I shake my head. I am not going to make this a “work hard” thing. A content calendar and lists and to-dos are part of the “work hard” mentality.

Maybe one day I’ll switch to that, but for now, I will not.

“Play hard” has no restrictions. So therefore, blogging will have no restrictions (for now).

We’ll see how this works.

Maybe I’ll start by finally publishing a few of the drafts…

Or maybe not.

Whatever happens next, it doesn’t matter. I’ll just do it. No overthinking, no worrying, no unrealistic expectations put on myself by me.

The time is now.

A re-introduction

I don’t know which is crazier…

The fact I haven’t blogged in over a year or the fact that I’ve had less than 16 ounces of coffee today.

For real, though. It’s been awhile. Hello!

Here’s the truth: I’ve tried to blog. Many times, in fact. Over the last year or so, actually. Every time I went to write, I just couldn’t do it.

I write every day for clients, brands and businesses, yet when I sit down to write for myself, I can’t.

Call it writer’s block, or a writer’s lull. The pressure I put on myself to write something valuable, thought-provoking and worthy of your time as readers became stronger than the motivation I had to write in the first place. Each idea I had just didn’t seem to be good enough to post, and so I never did.

So fast forward to over one year later…here I am. The writer’s block is going away (slowly, very slowly), so I apologize in advance if a period of time goes by without a post. I’m practicing and exercising the art of writing again, little by little.

Here are a few highlights to get us all up to speed once again!

I’ve been able to cross a few items off of my bucket list. Instead of boring you with the daily details of my life, let me give you a few highlights (complete with pictures).

I traveled to Chicago and visited The Bean, the Sears Tower, the Art Museum of Chicago and more. I saw Monet paintings in real life, and they are much more beautiful than the versions you see in history books and on Google. One of my favorite moments was seeing The Bean. I’ve wanted to visit it for years!

I traveled to Pittsburgh. My first time! I saw the outside of Heinz field (didn’t go inside sadly) and drank coffee in a fancy coffee shop. I walked across the Andy Warhol bridge. It was stunning.

I disco’d in my church’s Christmas dramatic musical. I wore go-go boots and silvery leather pants. Surprisingly, they were very comfortable and easy to walk in.

I purchased a piano. Granted, it is a Yamaha electric piano, but it does everything and anything. It is not a white grand piano (true piano goals right there), but it is beautiful and I am the proud owner of it!

Okay, let’s make this even shorter:

I saw the Rockettes perform in New York City. The Reach Band launched our first CD and had an album release party.


I stood by my friend’s side as she became a Mrs. We launched Reach Church with its first church service. I turned 23 and became the new owner of the nickname Kelly (long story made short here).


It has been a whirlwind of a year (and 13 days), so thank you for being patient as I figure out how to write again…authentically, personally and from the heart. It’s harder than it sounds, trust me.

It’s good to be back.


10 Things I Have Learned (So Far) In The Real World

I am not a Real World pro by any means, but I have been out of college for about half a year now. (Mind-blowing.)

Six months, apparently, is enough time for reality to sink in and make one realize that no, you are not, in fact, going back to school. You are done with homework and exams and assigned readings. You are done with college, period.

Now that I have entered this thing called The Real World, learning a new routine has come with several challenges I had not at first anticipated. Who knew not having to work on homework at night would cause a (mini) identity crisis?

I love my job! It’s fantastic!

However, when I come home from work, I often find myself not knowing what to do next. I have been so used to tackling homework or going to extra-curricular meetings for the past few years now, that with that suddenly gone, my evenings are free. No meetings, no homework. Suddenly, I have a personal life again.

I do not miss homework at. all., but I do (in a way) miss the routine I had so strategically created and mastered. For those of you out of college, please tell me I’m not alone, and that I’m normal(ish).

But, that’s not all. Instead of boring you with a long blog post, here are

10 Things I Have Learned (So Far) In The Real World.

1. Finding a hobby you can do at night is a great idea. 

2. Time management is still important. 

3. Packing your lunch the night before is a genius idea.

4. So is choosing your outfit. 

5. Cardigans are the best thing ever. Get one in every color. 

6. Find a podcast series or create a music playlist to listen to on your commute. 

7. Don’t forget about your friends. Stay in touch.

8. Read for fun. It’s not overrated. 

9. Pay your bills, save your money. 

10. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Ever. 

There is already many more items I could add to that list, and as I keep learning, that list will continue to grow. That’s the cool thing about life. You’re always learning something new!

What about you? What are some things you have learned while entering The Real World?